Kids do the darndest things.
Like lose their shit on you because
you handed them a PINK spoon for a BLUE bowl.
Shutting down a tantrum
only makes it worse.
Understanding what CAUSED the tantrum is what sets you free.
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I help parents
deeply understand their kids.
And themselves.
Confession: Before my oldest kid was even three years old, I had already become that mom I never wanted to be. The sibling rivalry brought me to my wits’ end, and my eldest’s strong will had me drowning in confusion.
Too many days found me yelling; too many nights left me in tears, feeling like a failure. My kids needed my leadership, not my temper, but HOW?
I took classes, read books, and listened to podcasts. I couldn't find anything in the world that spoke about parenting in a way that reflected what was really happening in my living room, day in and day out. Instead, everything felt quite unrelatable, and left me feeling like either my kids or I were broken, unable to be fixed. But I had a dream in my heart of what I wanted my motherhood and their childhood to look like. And I was not willing to give up on it.
It took me years of research, but I did finally figure out how to be the parent I always wanted to be in the real life I was actually living.
And then I went and created a system to help YOU do it too.
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