Might your current challenges really be the portal to your greatest wins someday?
Might your kids' less-than-fabulous behavior be the best thing that ever happened to your family?
But if you're not with me yet, I get it. We often go into growth kicking and screaming. I did too.
I was spiraling, and unwilling to lose this battle.
I was determined to find answers.
We need a parenting philosophy we LIKE using, and that also supports OUR DEEPEST VALUES. This should be evidence-based, well researched, and IT MUST INCLUDE ACTIONABLE TOOLS we can use in the heat of the moment.
We need to stop feeling so alone, because we're not! We deserve (and need) a community of moms who are completely non-judgmental, to be our trench buddies and help US DO US on the daily.
We need to find ways we KNOW WE MATTER in our lives, because we are more than quesadilla makers and car-poolers. We are soul shapers. We get to write a whole new story of what motherhood means to us, and what we want to mean to it.
As I built these systems and this new thinking into my life,
WOW. My life changed.
But why didn't every mama have this information?
I realized other mamas had a right to this amazing information too, so I started sharing it with friends. And then teaching formal classes. And then producing a podcast.
The first five years I explored these counter intuitive tools and radical mindset shifts just for myself, but then I spent the next five years tweaking and perfecting the system with other parents in my classes and online courses.